married

[spoiltprincess86]

i am doing a survey on how many ppl are married

[spoiltprincess86]

thanks for ur votes...may ALLAH reward u all inshaALLAH...

[MrWarraEnib]

single at the moment... alhamdoulillah... each one will get their nassib soon :mrgreen:

may allah grant us pious wifes and pious husband for our sisters ameen

[spoiltprincess86]

dats very true...inshaALLAH we will all find a husband and wife that is pious and will help us grow in our religion inshaALLAH

[khadijah]

assalamu alaykum


i vote "i would like to" inshallah
a pious muslim with a good personality is hard to find these days dont worry br n sis i generalising but this is what i have found.
inshallah when the time is right may we all find who we r looking for.


salams

[spoiltprincess86]

inshaALLAH sis...thanks for taking the time out to comment n vote..inshaALLAH u find the right person for u inshaALLAH...just make dua inshaALLAH

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I voted Yes.

I been married now for almost 15 years alhumdulillah... :D

May Allah bless all the single lassies and laddies with a pious husband/wife and may their lives be full of happiness and commitment.

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[™Repenter™]

Subh'Allah i was thinking about this. and so i thought to share it Insh'Allah

I heard that there is so much divorce among the none muslims then Muslims. simply because when you have Islam Insh'Allah there are no disputes.

And the Rates are increasing very high. Insh'Allah we all are granted pious husbands/Wifes. :mrgreen:

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Although there may be more divorce amongst the non muslims than the muslims dont forget that divorce still occurs amongst muslims.

Marriage is something that always needs to be worked on. Im sorry to say that but just cause we are muslims doesnt guarantee a happy divorce free life.

simply because when you have Islam Insh'Allah there are no disputes.

This is something I wish I could agree with, but we can see that especially these days this doesnt ring true, If it did then we wouldnt have muslim killing muslim and divorce amongst muslims would be non existant.

P.S these are just my thoughts so I hope no one takes offence to anything I have said.

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[MrWarraEnib]

i agree.... these days divorce levels among muslims are very high compared to say 100 years...

[™Repenter™]

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Although there may be more divorce amongst the non muslims than the muslims dont forget that divorce still occurs amongst muslims.

Marriage is something that always needs to be worked on. Im sorry to say that but just cause we are muslims doesnt guarantee a happy divorce free life.

simply because when you have Islam Insh'Allah there are no disputes.

This is something I wish I could agree with, but we can see that especially these days this doesnt ring true, If it did then we wouldnt have Muslim killing Muslim and divorce amongst muslims would be non existant.

P.S these are just my thoughts so I hope no one takes offence to anything I have said.

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I meant for non muslims not muslims :mrgreen:

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Oh do u mean that if non muslims embraced and lived by Islam then their divorce rate wouldnt be as high ? :oops:

Sorry for the misunderstanding :oops: :oops: :oops:

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[™Repenter™]

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Oh do u mean that if non muslims embraced and lived by Islam then their divorce rate wouldnt be as high ? :oops:

Sorry for the misunderstanding :oops: :oops: :oops:

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Yes :D

Alhumdulilah :mrgreen:

[khadijah]

assalamu alaykum


i think i have to disagree with you.
being a practising muslim doesnt neccassarily make ur personality compatible with ur spouse. marriage is based on so many things. and these days people simply arnt prepared. having islam makes u a better person inshallah but doesnt mean everything you do is correct...
sorry im typin real fast so i hope it makes sense inshallah....


but believe me i inda talk from experience .....


salams

[™Repenter™]

if you both practice Islam and Fear Allah. there won't be any dramas Insh'Allah.

I witnessed it with my own eyes. iv seen one follow and the other don't and there marriage ends up divorced. but when both are following they stick Insh'Allah

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if you both practice Islam and Fear Allah. there won't be any dramas Insh'Allah.

Sure Islam plays a major part in marriage but it also comes down to the 2 people who are married, if they want it to work then they will work at it.. If they dont wanna work at it then it will fail and end in divorce.

iv seen one follow and the other don't and there marriage ends up divorced.

I have seen many many occasions where one is practising and the other isnt but the marriage survives.

It comes down to the people

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[Rassila]

are you married?

No. Alhamdulilah!

Allah has shaped the course of every event in our lives in such a way that it will have the best possible outcome for us if we have trust in Allah and show gratitude to Him.

so for those unmarried do not waste your time, dreaming about 'that perfect partner!' or 'who will marry me?' as your destiny is pre-planned and "verily, Allahu swt is the best of planners". However, a muslim/ muslimah must educate themselves and prepare themselves for becoming a good muslim partner, child-bearer and fulfilling the sunnah.

wassalam
RaS

[™Repenter™]

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if you both practice Islam and Fear Allah. there won't be any dramas Insh'Allah.

Sure Islam plays a major part in marriage but it also comes down to the 2 people who are married, if they want it to work then they will work at it.. If they dont wanna work at it then it will fail and end in divorce.

iv seen one follow and the other don't and there marriage ends up divorced.

I have seen many many occasions where one is practising and the other isnt but the marriage survives.

It comes down to the people

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Yes is certainly does.

OK its best for me to stop talking about these issues. for i have not been married etc..

So may Allah forgive me for the disturbs that i have created.

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[AbdulQader]

are you married?

No. Alhamdulilah!

Allah has shaped the course of every event in our lives in such a way that it will have the best possible outcome for us if we have trust in Allah and show gratitude to Him.

so for those unmarried do not waste your time, dreaming about 'that perfect partner!' or 'who will marry me?' as your destiny is pre-planned and "verily, Allahu swt is the best of planners". However, a Muslim/ muslimah must educate themselves and prepare themselves for becoming a good Muslim partner, child-bearer and fulfilling the sunnah.

wassalam
RaS

Very nicely put!

Wassalam

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OK its best for me to stop talking about these issues. for i have not been married etc..

So may Allah forgive me for the disturbs that i have created.

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Brother You havent created any disturbs... this is what is called discussion.. AND whats the point of discussion if there arent two different points of view ?

What you suugest Indeed we all wish to be true and pray that our married lives end up like that... but from where i sit and what I have seen and experienced myself I cant see it like that... BUT again others may.

This is the phase in your life where you learn and can implement things into your life that may help you when you are married Inshallah.

Everyones point of view is important and whats the point of a discussion if everyone cant say what is on their mind or in their hearts ?

Khair and I appologise if I came across harsh or unappreciative of your comments... Lets just say my experience of marriage hasnt always been bliss. But then that comes back to who I am and who my husband is.

Khair Inshallah

so for those unmarried do not waste your time, dreaming about 'that perfect partner!' or 'who will marry me?' as your destiny is pre-planned and "verily, Allahu swt is the best of planners". However, a Muslim/ muslimah must educate themselves and prepare themselves for becoming a good Muslim partner, child-bearer and fulfilling the sunnah.

Agreed...

Thinking of marriage, family & kids is the most common dream amongst young girls...


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[spoiltprincess86]

everyone's views r excellent...i believe that Islam is the first most important thing in marriage...then the rest comes...family...dreams...hope for the future....where ur gonna live...wat ur gonna do...how u wanna raise ur kids inshaALLAH...

[™Repenter™]

Also Marriage completes Ones faith in religion. and holds back temptations. :mrgreen:

Alhumdulilah :mrgreen:

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Also Marriage completes Ones faith in religion. and holds back temptations. :mrgreen:

Alhumdulilah :mrgreen:

Subhanallah I was thinking that tonight. Does anyone know of the hadith that this is mentioed in ?

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[MrWarraEnib]

i think the hadith is that marriage is half your deen... inshallah will look it up. :D

[Lily of the Valley]

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wow hot topic . I am not married yet nor am I looking at the moment, I believe when it is time then it will happen.

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