i need help

[in trouble]

brothers and sisters i am 12 years old and i need help see my mum wants me to go to this tutor and i dont want to go cause i think she just sweet talks my mum and my mum listens and now i dont want to go but my mum wants wats good for me and i dont no wat to do cause my mum is paying alot of money please help :| :|

Salams in trouble,

What is it about this tutor that you dislike?

A tutor could be a good thing for you. If you need help with homework or projects then its good to have a tutor that can assist you.

Your right in saying your mum wants what is best for you. Have you tried going to the tutor and seeing how it is? If you try and make the best of it it might be good for you and you will find you will get better marks at school.

Wasalams,
COUNSELLOR



brothers and sisters i am 12 years old and i need help see my mum wants me to go to this tutor and i dont want to go cause i think she just sweet talks my mum and my mum listens and now i dont want to go but my mum wants wats good for me and i dont no wat to do cause my mum is paying alot of money please help :| :|

[i need help]

yes brother i have gone to the totur and she was a two face (stakfer allah)but now brother i dont want to be bad or make my mum angry so i am going again.

[Outspoken]

Assalaamu Alaikom

It's ok insha Allah, it'll be alright.

You have to understand that you are wedged between two: mum and this tutor. You have to define each relationship.

We understand that you don't like this tutor because you think she deceives mum. Not only that but Mum actually listens to her and believes what she says.

Simple. sit down with mum and tell her. Say mum, I like learning and I enjoy my education but I don't feel comfortable with this tutor. Not only that but she offends me because she tells you things that aren't true. Mum will then ask questions and you can explain.

If you want a replacement tutor, it can be fixed faster than you can say 'fix it please'. Just tell me what year you're in and what subject(s) and I know the perfect replacement.

Cheer up!
Wassalaamu Alaikom