Muslim-girrll!
08-11-05, 11:44 AM
As salam ualikum!
I hav a big problem.
Whenever something bad happens 2 me I promise Allah that if He resolves that affliction I'll do something good. Except I promise things which are way 2 hard for me 2 keep. For eg. last time I promised ALlah that I would give all the clothes that I have,( except only a few things to wear at home and one burkha to wear outside) to charity for the Muslims who are suffering from the earthquake in Pakistan. Except now I think that I don;t thinkI'm capable of giving nearly all the clothes that I have. But when I thik that i can't keep the promise I feel really guilty and I feel hard hearted and I don't feel close to Allah. I feel like I don't wanna give anything 2 charity, because I'm always scared that I can't do it. & I always feel like Allah hates me now & when I hink that it makes my love for Allh decrease and then I don't feel like doing good deeds.
Could u give me advice?
Jazakullah khair
I hav a big problem.
Whenever something bad happens 2 me I promise Allah that if He resolves that affliction I'll do something good. Except I promise things which are way 2 hard for me 2 keep. For eg. last time I promised ALlah that I would give all the clothes that I have,( except only a few things to wear at home and one burkha to wear outside) to charity for the Muslims who are suffering from the earthquake in Pakistan. Except now I think that I don;t thinkI'm capable of giving nearly all the clothes that I have. But when I thik that i can't keep the promise I feel really guilty and I feel hard hearted and I don't feel close to Allah. I feel like I don't wanna give anything 2 charity, because I'm always scared that I can't do it. & I always feel like Allah hates me now & when I hink that it makes my love for Allh decrease and then I don't feel like doing good deeds.
Could u give me advice?
Jazakullah khair