Im the oldest girl in my family and i have a sister who doesnt respect me at all, we fight over little things and its stupid, and whenever shes angry there are times where she says to me, i hope you die, or i hope you go to hell and when she says it, it really hurts me deeply cause i have heard that you have to be careful of what you say since the angels may hear you and say ameen and im scared it might come true. She says she hates me the most in my family and it hurts me.
However there are times where we get along really well, but i just wished this could last for ever not a for a period of time only. Another thing which i havent mention earlier, there are times where its my fault cause i say names which she doesnt like and it leads to a fight. I know i shouldnt be saying these sayings to her, but its hard cause she can be annoying at times.
Could you please give me some advise on how to get along with her and i really want her to stop saying those bad things to me.